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June 16, 2024

Healing, Musings

Father’s Day for the fatherless and broken-hearted

For anyone triggered by Father’s Day I know today is a hard day. I understand the pain and questions that can arise on Father's day for those with absent dads, late dads or dads you never know...

June 5, 2024

Healing, Musings

Perfection is exhausting

February 21, 2024

Lifestyle

Why do we never know when people are hurting until it’s too late?

I’ve learnt something about a broken heart. It’s easier to conceal than a broken leg. Many people don’t see it because it’s not bleeding…

July 12, 2023

Lifestyle

AMAZON PRIME DAY 2023 BEST BUYS

A very quick post bringing you the Amazon Prime Day 2023 Best buys! From personal care to home bargains check it out....

November 24, 2022

Lifestyle

The Ultimate Soft life babes guide to Black Friday Deals 2022 💁🏿‍♀️

If you want to get all the Black Friday Deals 2022 with that minimal soft life babe effort, then keep on reading for all the Black Friday UK 2022 tips....

November 16, 2022

Lifestyle

WE BACK!😄 Finding Purpose and direction in life

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What’s coming is better than what has been 🥰

What’s coming is better than what has been 🥰

God specialises in the impossible. I want to encou

God specialises in the impossible. I want to encourage you that what looks impossible for you right now is NOTHING to the creator of heaven and earth. His plan for you goes above and beyond your dreams, your family, your career, or your time on earth 🌍 ♾️

Your life will bless people you don’t even know! Have faith and trust in him. He will give you better than you could ever dream of ❤️ type Amen in the comments if you’re believing in your Abraham promise! 😄🙏🏿

YOU’RE BLESSED TO BE A BLESSING! Xxx

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Finally sharing my birthday pics from 6 SEPTEMBER!

Finally sharing my birthday pics from 6 SEPTEMBER! 🥳🎉🎂

Like most of this year, for the very first time ever, I had NO plans for my birthday - zero/gucci/nada! No flights ✈️ or Oceanside 🌊vacations booked, not even dinner! If you know me, you’ll understand how strange this is coz I be booking flights way in advance 😭

So I had initially planned to go to Tulum then fly to @womanevolve conference. But around August, I started to accept that God had a different plan for me this year.

And I’m soo grateful, because God is good. Even when we get tired, he keeps on going - planning and working for our ultimate good.
God doesn’t forget his children, he doesn’t slumber nor sleep regardless of what the circumstances look like!

Reflecting on the past 31 years of life, I realise that I’m finally living a life I don’t feel the need to escape from🥹

I’m so grateful to be alive and to WANT to be alive, I can’t believe I made it! 🥺 So many of my cousins and aunties died when I was a young girl in Zambia in the 90’s so truthfully, I never thought I’d make it so far.

I thank God for never giving up on me, and thank you to everyone who wished me a happy birthday - I was overwhelmed by the love I received from you guys🥹🫶🏿 and especially my friends who made the day so special and @eden_fabulous_flowers for the best surprise and making me cry😭
You are an Angel! 😇

And Happy birthing anniversary to my muse my beautiful mummy @suwaview thank you. You have been an incredible mother and I wanna be just like you when I grow up!🥰 (see how my dress is a copy of hers?! 🤣)

SEPTEMBER BABIES WHERE YOU AT!!! It’s our time let’s gooo ❤️🥳Drop your dates below 💃🏿🥂

Dress: @farailondon
Dinner: @malarestaurant

EXACTLY 11 months ago today, I embarked on a journ

EXACTLY 11 months ago today, I embarked on a journey to Jamaica 🇯🇲 for the first time. Thinking I was going to celebrate my birthday and launch my book; The Purpose Journal. But God had a different plan.

What I thought was the beginning of my Purpose empowering work to serve talented people like you, was actually the beginning of a totally different pathway for me: a journey of HEALING. Lol. Jamaica gave me a gift that I didn’t even realise I needed, and the past 11 months have taken me through various stages of healing.

Healing is rough and uncomfortable and draining. It takes so much energy, and I didn’t even realise I was going through it until one day I broke down in the middle of the night crying because it dawned on me that I’d never given myself space to cry, to be a victim or to recognise and acknowledge my pain. It was hard, but I was so happy to be free, to understand why I was so restless and overzealous in my ambitions at times. And my therapist was so happy too loool (it took many hours of therapy to get here 😅)

Sometimes we don’t realise that we are going through something that’s asking more of us. We’re used to giving and proving ourselves constantly that we don’t know how to stop without feeling guilty. When life goes differently to how you planned, you tend to question your worth, your ability or if you’re good enough, BUT you are good enough, and whatever life is asking of you right now is only A PART of your story.

If you allow yourself to be present in this part of your story, you will see how it ties together with the purpose in which you were created and you’ll learn what God is trying to show you. That you ARE enough.

Jamaica surrounded me with love everyday. I met the most wonderful people just filling me up with love, care and concern for free lol. It was a spiritual experience that triggered my journey of healing. There’s no shame in being broken, Broken crayons colour too 🥰 and I hope you can join me in this journey of seeing the beauty your colour brings to the world, even if it’s a little rough round the edges. Comment a ❤️ if u with me & add me to your favourites so you don’t miss a thing! To love & healing💕 x Metiya

Happy New Year!🥳 Don’t SLEEP on yourself this

Happy New Year!🥳 Don’t SLEEP on yourself this year. 2022 might not have been the best year for you, but the growth you went through is what will propel you forward in 2023!❤️

Watch the full video on How To Reflect on your 2022 with kindness and compassion on my YouTube channel linked in bio or search @MetiyaChique x
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Happy holidays!🥳💃🏿 Who else spent the day

Happy holidays!🥳💃🏿 Who else spent the day eating leftovers? 👀 so I’ve answered all the NGL questions my Instafam anonymously submitted and someone asked me what my red flag is in a man 🚩 DIS story will make you understand why I said what I said 🇿🇲🌍🌚 Watch the full video via YouTube link in my bio or search ‘MetiyaChique’ on YouTube! 🤭🤭🤭

Let me know what you think & have a wonderful holiday xxx

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Merry Christmas babes!❤️ Sending you lots of l

Merry Christmas babes!❤️ Sending you lots of love and joy this season. May God heal you, comfort & BLESS you! In the words of my girl @malikalacoya_ “Your Presence is the PRESENT!” 🎁 You are here for a reason and I’m so proud of you for getting through this year! 🙌🏿 #YouAreEnough❤
PS: New video is out on my YouTube answering all the anonymous Q’s you asked 🫣🫠🫢 link in bio or search MetiyaChique on YouTube! 💃🏿

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Who else isn’t counting that birth year Covid to

Who else isn’t counting that birth year Covid took away from us to their age?😣 I finally shared my luxury 30th Solo birthday trip VLOG on my YouTube! I went to the beautiful island of Madeira and stayed at @saccharumresort which was glorious!😍🤩 Would you go on a solo trip for your birthday? 👀 My vlog is linked in my bio or search ‘MetiyaChique’ on YouTube! 🤗
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Happy Sunday!❤️ Behind the scenes video of my

Happy Sunday!❤️ Behind the scenes video of my website photoshoot is live on my YouTube🎥 🥳

Can you believe we shot all the photos on Metiyachique.com in Lusaka 🇿🇲 in November LAST year?! 😱 Great things take time huns!

Don’t let anyone (including yourself) ever rush you or make you feel like YOUR time has passed! Your story is not their story!

Anyway the link to full video is in my bio or search @MetiyaChique on YouTube ❤️ Leave me a comment & subscribe!🤗

Thank you AMAZING crew:
@manass3h_jr Photographer
@chinyunduchipala & @cuthbertcpoho Videographer
@nasilelesitali & @cindy_chibomba Set & site prep
#BaChipasha Hair @blush_by_tash Makeup
@seth_mcangelo Fitness extraordinaire

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Many things we go through don’t make sense at th

Many things we go through don’t make sense at the time, particularly the painful times 💔 But your purpose is still in there somewhere, like a crack of light in a dark room.
You might be feeling out of it, and maybe even disconnected from what you think you’re supposed to be doing, but you are here for a purpose.

Whatever you have been through or are going through cannot take away from WHY you are here. Let me help you start that journey to living content and fulfilled in your life with the Purpose Journal.

Until you believe that YOU ARE ENOUGH - you’ll keep wondering if this the best it can be.

Join the community and let’s get started on metiyachique.com 10% off all hardcopy Purpose Journals this weekend and cyber Monday - use code BF10 x ❤️

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Who’s shopping this Black Friday? 🥳I scoured

Who’s shopping this Black Friday? 🥳I scoured through hundreds of products finding the best deals in my new blog post! Check out best of the sales featuring my top beauty products from @cultbeauty 25% off sale and @lookfantastic up to 50% sale. And some lovely homeware from @johnlewis 20%off and the best luxury treats on sale @harveynichols all linked for you on Metiyachique.com and updated in my bio x Check out the top bargains on my website and let me know what you buying! 🤗
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Wearing @nakedwardrobe top and @spanx faux leather MOTO leggings

Happy thanksgiving to our friends across the pond and everyone celebrating! ❤️🦃
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